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Decision-making on the beginning transition.
Before to make the definitive decision on the
beginning transition, you should consider and
weigh all carefully.
Not speak for nothing: "Seven times measure
- once cut off"!
The main thing do not hurry up. Put before itself
some question, and try fairly, as though it was
made by absolutely extraneous person, from the
party, them to answer.
First, how much your desire to replace a floor
is proved and great?
Try to analyse all life to this important point
when you should make the decision.
Whether you thought of this step since the earliest
childhood, or it was showed at you more recently?
You see, and can feel yourself as the high-grade
Person in an opposite sex body, or to you to like
only to change clothes in their clothes.
If you have a family and children, whether you
are ready to offer the family happiness and well-being,
that happens in a life when people dare at this
important step more often.
Whether you are ready, for the sake of this step,
to offer the career and the social status?
You the strong personality, or not? Whether you
can transfer those difficulties, a pain, insults,
sneers and humiliations which can expect you on
it not a simple and difficult way?
Whether will break you all it?
It only the small part of those questions which
you should set to yourselves and fairly on them
If, though on one of the put questions you answer
negatively, - you do not need to do this step,
in order to avoid that finally, the rash act,
can lead to vital accident, and not only yours,
but also people close and expensive to you.
Consult with the experts knowing and understanding
That is why I, first of all, have advised to subscribe
for Russian-speaking conference
groups where you will find answers to many
questions exciting you.
Look for other variants of display of yours Т*individual.
Can be you will satisfy only disguise in opposite
Sometimes, it is enough to person to be CD - ?,
or TV - , and it is quite satisfied by this role.
Words: before to make the definitive decision,
THINK, THINK, and once again THINK!
When the decision is already accepted.
If you have begun the transition, try slowly,
gradually to move on Т* ways.
Do not rush like mad to an ultimate goal.
The clever saying says: "More haste, less
speed!", and still: "more haste, less
Haste in Т* business, is absolutely inadmissible!
It can lead you only to accident! Constantly it
The following recommendation concerns TS MtF.
As soon as you have made the definitive decision
on the beginning transition,
at once begin
To do Epilyaciya
do not linger. Remember that on removal of hair
from your person will leave about 600-700 hours.
And it, about a year, and even all two.
Do not appoint to itself HRT!
The knowing doctor-expert which to the greatest
regret, for today very much and it is not enough
should do it.
Remember that appointment HRT especially
individually for each person.
Here very many factors are important: age, weight,
the growth, the transferred and current diseases
and also many other things. And how it is correct
and what, to you will be appointed a course HRT,
depends not only your health, but also duration
of your life.
At correctly appointed course HRT,
life expectancy of transsexuals precisely same,
as well as at usual people.
Do not hasten to pass on FullTime.
Try to achieve at first, though any Passability.
It is very important in display avoidance in relation
to you from a society, a transphobia, intolerance,
And at times and rough, physical violence. And
you will feel more more confident and more comfortable,
knowing, that you almost than do not differ from
usual people of an opposite sex.
Посторайтесь to receive the inquiry, and to have
its a little notarially certified copies, from
your psychotherapist, the psychiatrist, or the
sexopathologist, about following maintenances:
The inquiry is given First name, middle initial,
In that It/it consists on the account (the name
With the diagnosis: transsexualism (the nuclear
The patient/patient prepares for operative treatment
(to operation on floor change).
The press. Date and the signature.
To have on hands such document very important,
especially for inhabitants of the CIS countries,
in avoidance of conflicts to law enforcement bodies.
Remember that in due course and furthermore with
course application HRT, your appearance
will cardinally vary, and not conformity of that
your appearance which is in your documents, can
lead undesirable incidients.
And you, with such inquiry, especially, if you
already will pass by then on
FullTime, will feel more more confident and quieter.
As soon as you will achieve Passability, gradually
pass on FullTime.
Be afraid of nothing. Adjust itself as the actor,
or the actress for a role new to.
I am a woman! Or, I am a man! I In the circumstances offered!
Think! Analyze! Arrive, as representatives of
an opposite sex.
Prepare your relatives, neighbours and friends,
for your new social role.
Give with them "heart-felt" talks, explaining
and showing to the example, that transsexuals
are same normal people, as well as they.
Т*, for associates it is not infectious, and they
can be absolutely quiet.
All not clear and unknown, instal fear and fear
in people, and accordingly forces them to include
at itself protective reaction which at times happens
Do not impose to them violently, the opinion,
and the outlooks on life.
People are necessary for overpersuading easy and
patiently. Even if on it a lot of time is required.
Let's to them read interesting truthful articles
on Т* a theme, show interesting films, telecasts,
the Internet sites!
Be not afflicted, if some of your close friends
and neighbours from you to turn away, and will
cease to communicate with you. It is natural and
inevitable process from which anywhere you will
not get to. In such cases to itself speak: "that
the God does not do All - to the best"!
It, some kind of, check of people as speak "on
Believe, you still will have new, real friends
Learn to put on not brightly, but it is beautiful
and with taste.
Try to look how most usual people, not
involving to itself of special attention.
The first "an exit in people", in the
status new to, try to make with someone of relatives,
or friends who understand you and support.
Avoid very populous, and during too time of poorly
And as, do not walk on streets too late.
If from associates, you, suddenly, have faced
displays of a transphobia, insults in your address
and sneers, - try not to contact in the senseless
conflict, and as soon as possible, but
with a high head, to leave this place.
You should be above all it!
Also remember, those underdeveloped geeks who
try to offend and discompose you, your little
finger do not stand! You the elite!
It not given as you to live TWO LIVES! They,still
If in relation to you it is shown though the slightest
violence, - no embarrassment to call
Someone to the aid!
How to struggle with depression?
Here at everyone the methods.
One accept demulcents, that in my opinion, is
not absolutely correct decision.
Others, their number includes also I, remove stres
auto-training, auto-suggestion, the sports, a
healthy way of life.
Somehow time was looked by me in a mirror, have
seen there the reflexion and have cried:
"About, horror! Really it I? Well, what of
you the woman! Ugliness any!"
It was enough that with me the hysterics, and
accordingly depression has begun.
I would not know to what all it have resulted,
if my best girlfriend Belief has not advised to
NO SEE IN THE MIRROR WHILE YOU PASS transition
Well, and if You look, repeat to yourself every
"I AM BEAUTIFUL!
I AM CLEVER!
I AM DEVILISHLY ATTRACTIVE!
I LOVE AND I WISH TO BE FAVOURITE!
I CAN ALWAYS COME TO THE AID OF PEOPLE!
I LOVE THIS LIFE, AND I BELIEVE, THAT IT WILL
LOVE ME "!
There are such moments in a life when it seems,
that it loses any sense.
It can be caused the different reasons: friends
have turned away, close people, a transphobia
and intolerance from a society surrounding us
and people have betrayed. Absence or shortage
Disorders on work, and another much much.
What it is possible to advise in this situation?
Look at all it on the other hand.
First Supreme sends us tests in hope, that we
will successfully overcome them.
Secondly It will not send us tests more than we
At many people in the situation World happen much
more difficult and more abruptly, than at me.
I see! I hear! I move! I live!
Every morning rises and tenderly the Sun shines!
Sing and chirp birds! Flowers are dismissed!
The life, despite of everything, is fine and surprising!
And then, I know, that desperate situations there is no!
After a black strip it will be obligatory white.
I know, will be indispensable!
Вообщем, drive away it, grief-grief-melancholy.
If, really very strongly you love a life, it will
by all means love you!
SRS(Sex Reassigment Surgey).
There is passed an uneasy way from decision-making
on the beginning transition, and here you already
are at its final stage. Ahead SRS(Sex Reassigment
What recommendations here can be?
in the first place, it is necessary to solve: by what
technique you wish to perform operation,
And who to you will do this operation?
Here still sharply there is an important question
- a question of money.
Remembering a wise saying: "Avaricious pays
twice"! It is necessary to choose for itself
that variant which would combine two components
the price - quality.
And that they, though somehow have been approached
to each other.
Sometimes it is necessary to wait, save up a few
a little more money what to perform such operation
better and it is safe, than in a pursuit of cheapness,
вследствии poor-quality operation, to lose health
and to become the invalid.
Again, again I will repeat a gold rule: TAKE YOUR
Now on the Internet a lot of the various information
on this theme. Search, look, compare, analyze,
carefully all взвесте and think over, and only
then make the definitive decision.
Here, on this site, in section Medicine,you
can get acquainted with some techniques SRS which
are applied today in the world.
And the last.
Remember: to All the time! Do not advance event!
Do not run ahead of a steam locomotive!
If to you it is foreordained by Destiny to pass
Т* a way, you it will pass, sooner or later.
Think! Analyze! Search!
You it is obligatory, I am convinced of it, will
find for myself that unique and correct way which
will result you in success!
Believe in itself and in the forces!
Trust in the dream and it will by all means be
After all you are worthy Т*!
you want something, very strongly,
the whole universe will help to ensure
Your desire to have come true.".
Autor ® Zhanna